after reading today's sunday times articles on local women. i couldnt help but agree with what the article said.
heres the said article.so the article starts with this:
CONFIDENT. Assertive. Practical. Not into mind games. That's what 21st-century Singaporean women are, right? All efficiency in their smart suits, they have rolled up their sleeves and proven their mettle, earning good money as they show their savvy in the workplace, flood into top universities and make their point in politics.
But not when it comes to dating, it would seem.
Whether shopgirl or career gal, these Miss Independents turn into pampered princesses who expect the mere male of the species - as they view him - to be at their beck and call.
aw yeah. according to someone, her friends'/relatives'/cousins' have boyfriends who are completely at their beck and call. and of fucking cos, she herself begins to develop a firm belief thats the way all boyfriends should be. in other words, be a fucking slave, a pet... just that this slave/pet will have to feed the owner from their own pockets etc. personally, i have yet to date an OL so i have no idea with regards to the workplace aspect.Heres more from the article:
expect their men to pay for their dates, deposit them safely home afterwards, initiate celebrations and dress up on special occasions, meet them at least twice a week, open doors to cars and restaurants and - oh - some even expect guys to carry their handbags for them.
local women have serious issues. this sounds like ur bring ur own 5 year old daughter out or something. so a r/s with local women is actually paternal duty is it? whats next? CHANGE THEIR PADS FOR THEM TOO? of cos some on the list of expectations aint too hard, men do perform them willingly but expecting all of those at all times is fucked up. so ur man has his hands occupied, yet u still expect him to open ur doors? opening car doors when going in i can comprehend, but when coming out very hard to open and come out meh? god save the men. also a broke man how to always pay for ur meals? always hear girls say they look for intelligent men blah blah, i dont see how the above list requires more than average intelligence. a retard can prolly do those too if u train him.so conclusion, women are hypocritical. below a female herself agrees. :)
The founder of dating agency Lunch Actually Violet Lim, 28, tells LifeStyle she has come across many female members who declined to go on a second date with a guy despite finding him witty and intelligent because he did not pay for her share.'Some women are hypocritical as they demand to be taken seriously and treated equally, but when it comes to dating etiquette, they expect their boyfriends to attend to their every need,' she says. (Lu Minru, 36, senior marketing/communications consultant)
so where the fuck is the equality? oh sure they want it at workplace so they can take our food bowls.which comes to this... these females wants to earn as much as us YET wants us to pay and do everything else. female logic defies all known sciences. For some men, already stressed with the practicalities of fighting bright, clever women at the workplace, it must seem bewildering.
And for others, it must simply seem out of touch with reality.
Mr Joseph Wong, 36, an account director at an advertising firm, declares that Singapore women are 'too pampered and demanding'.
'Some of them are a bit of a nightmare and expect too much from men,' he says.
'There should be give and take in a relationship. If they are always piling on the pressure on men to do this and do that, they'd just put them off.'
Mr Wong, who is married with a baby daughter, adds that he has no problems with opening car doors and paying during dates.
'But if I am expected to do all that, then I feel it is a chore. It should come from my heart,' he says.
Regional sales manager Andy Ow, 37, feels that some women just want to have their cake and eat it, too.
'Women set standards selectively,' he says. 'In certain areas, they want us to perform to their expectations. Yet at other times, they want to have their say. They are sending mixed signals and they confuse us sometimes.'
above is how some men think. i agree 100% with them. pampered, demanding, failure to comprehend the concept of equality and sharing of burden. and since they pile chores like these on men, they should get the fuck in the kitchen and do some real chores to pay it back. dont expect anyone to give and give and feel good. that only occurs in fairy tales and movies. those characters have UNLIMITED CASH, TIME AND VITALITY. they dont need to work, they have all the time and they are all not real.wake the fuck up.and oh if anyone has a boyfriend that meets all your expectations, please do ur best to keep him. we need more of such heroes to keep unreasonable females away.
according to Dr Ilya Farber,
'If those are the most important items on most people's date checklists, then the human race is doomed,' adding that the results seem to reflect the traditional image of women as fragile creatures who need to have everything done for them. '
This is rather disappointing, since getting rid of that image has historically been an important step in establishing equal opportunity for women - in education, in the workplace and in government.'
the human race is doomed alright. or maybe just the local populace lulz. so whats with the bullshit about equality? haha. i would like to take the opportunity to quote 3 6 mafia, he said "I've got the dick so i make the rules". so how about staying unequal and let men beat yall into submission?
but of cos there are still some women who makes sense.
On the other hand, marketing consultant Ms Lu, whose husband is Australian, says that while they were dating as students in Melbourne, she insisted on going dutch, although he did pay for dinner sometimes.
'Both of us were equally in love and wanted to spend time to get to know each other, so I thought it was unfair that he foot all bills,' she says.
Ms Sue Yeo, the 33-year-old owner of dating agency Drinks At Eight, says: 'Not only do the men look ridiculous, I absolutely do not see how doing this proves an act of love and concern. If women are too lazy to take care of their personal belongings, then don't carry a bag.'
Meanwhile, Ms Mika Fujii, 41, managing director of an advertising firm here, does not understand all the fuss.
'In Japan, many women of my generation don't expect men to do anything special for them. It's nice if he opens doors for me, but I'm physically capable of opening them myself. If he's very rich, he can settle the bill but I will be equally fine with going dutch.
'In fact, I wouldn't allow a man to send me home unless I already know him very well. What if he turns out to be a pervert?' she says.
so what does the above say? outta the survey of 200 only like what 5 who are good women? this is fail on an extraordinarily epic scale. also in other words, find older, more matured partners as well as japanese ladies. esp japanese ladies, if u know what i mean.
to all the females who are normal, respect to yall. hope yall find happiness.
to those batshit crazy ones please wake the fuck up if not someone will have to wake u up forcefully.
no one owes you a living. we both bleed blood, just that u have to do it monthly.
so stop being such a pain in the ass. men are balding earlier cos of ur unnecessary stress and pressure. stop forcing men to the edge with horse shit antics. respect ur men as men not slaves. dont dominate, dont control, dont restrict. these only serves to push ur partners away. just look at the rising divorce rates locally, clearly something must be wrong. which means the partners sucks so the other tries to look for love outside of the prison.
lastly, know why it is impossible to please a woman?
BECAUSE NOBODY HAS A DICK THAT TASTES LIKE CHOCOLATE AND EJACULATES MONEY.
disclaimer: the author is not gay. he respects good women. at this point in time he cannot fathom himself in a relationship with batshitcrazy wimminz. perhaps he is destined to die a loveless, lonesome death.
and one more thing,
the author DID THIS FOR THE LULZ
cheers!
